Expectant women may be familiar with the term “baby blues,” but what are they really in for?
“Postpartum blues are very common,” says Mary
Mandell, M.D., a psychiatrist with FirstHealth
Behavioral Services. “‘Baby blues’ have to do with
feelings of sadness, maybe tearfulness, low energy, and feeling
overwhelmed by the new responsibility. Those are feelings that
all new mothers have to some degree.”
According to Pamela Kantorowski, M.D., a board certified
OB/GYN specialist with Southern Pines Women’s Health Center,
postpartum blues occur in the first two weeks after giving birth. If
symptoms persist, worsen or appear later in the postpartum year,
the woman may be suffering from postpartum depression.
Doctors believe that the combination of hormonal changes and
psychosocial stressors trigger postpartum depression.
Women with
PPD experience an inability to get pleasure from activities they
used to enjoy. They experience sleeplessness (even when baby is
sleeping), changes in appetite and energy, difficulty concentrating
or making decisions, and feelings of
hopelessness or worthlessness.
“The mother who has these symptoms
for more than two weeks, for
the better part of every day, needs to
see a doctor,” says Dr. Mandell.
“Other signs of PPD would be a
mother not wanting to spend time
with her baby,” says Dr. Kantorowski,
“or not wanting to leave the house.”
“PPD catches women by surprise,”
says Dr. Mandell. “They don’t expect
to feel this sadness. It’s supposed to be a happy time.”
A PPD story
Often, women feel so guilty for having such symptoms that
they fail to seek treatment. Angela Thomas knows all of this first
hand.
“Looking back now, I can see that my postpartum depression
began in the hospital, two days after my C-section,” Thomas says.
At the time, Thomas’s mother reassured her that it was normal
to be nervous when visitors held her newborn. “It got to the
point that I was almost in a panic,” Thomas recalls. “I couldn’t
stand all these people breathing germs on her, and I would break
down crying.”
Back home in Lillington, surrounded by friends and family,
Thomas found that she still didn’t want people around the baby.
She began to feel nauseous whenever the baby cried. She had no
appetite and went for days without eating.
Most disturbingly, she found herself not wanting to be around
the baby.
“I was afraid that I would infect her,” she says.
Finally, Thomas went to see her family doctor. Recognizing
a case of postpartum depression, the physician called Thomas’s
mother in to explain the situation. “My mom was wonderful,”
Thomas says. “It turns out she had experienced similar symptoms,
to a lesser degree, when my brother was born.”
Thomas left the doctor’s office feeling hopeful for the first time
in months. That was on a Friday. Forty-eight hours later, though,
she found herself on the brink of suicide.
“I felt like I needed to be out of my child’s life,” she says.
Advised to head to the Emergency Department at FirstHealth
Moore Regional Hospital, Thomas was taken straight back to see
a Behavioral Services doctor. He explained that she was having a
severe panic attack and that depression was causing her physical
symptoms.
“I was asked if I wanted to harm my child,” Thomas recalls. “I
was asked about weapons and poisons and access to vehicles.”
Thomas underwent intensive outpatient therapy, and her family
agreed that she was not to be left by herself or alone with the
baby. Now Thomas feels that the outpatient program may have
saved her life. She attended three group therapy sessions on a
daily basis, and one weekly individual session where she was prescribed
an anti-depressant.
After two weeks, she began to feel more like herself.
“PPD is treated very effectively with a combination of psychotherapy
and anti-depressants,” says Dr. Mandell, who notes that
the drugs are safe for nursing mothers. “And group therapy helps
in so many ways.”
“Once I reached out, people
were very supportive,” says
Thomas who encourages new
moms not to put so much pressure
on themselves to be perfect. “Let
friends and family help you.”
Once a taboo topic
Health care providers are more
aware of PPD today, but it once
was a topic that was barely mentioned.
Dr. Mandell recently gave a talk at Sandhills Pediatrics,
where new mothers are routinely given a questionnaire that
screens them for symptoms of PPD.
“You might have a mother who looks like she’s holding up
really well,” Dr. Mandell says, “but when you ask about specific
symptoms, you find that she is depressed and needs treatment.”
How can Dad help? “Be really kind and supportive,” Dr.
Mandell says. “Insist that the woman be evaluated by a professional.”
In extremely rare cases, women develop postpartum psychosis,
a condition that is characterized by paranoid delusions and hallucinations.
Women who have already had an episode of depression are at
an increased risk for PPD, as are women who have gone through
particularly stressful or high-risk pregnancies.
“Our labor and delivery nurses look for patients with specific
risk factors,” says Dr. Kantorowski, “and we note in the chart to
discuss the pre-emptive use of antidepressants during the last few
weeks of pregnancy.”
Moderate exercise may help avoid postpartum depression by
boosting serotonin levels, but there is no foolproof way to avoid
PPD.
“It doesn’t matter who you are,” says Dr. Kantorowski. “It
can happen to anyone; your hormones are your hormones. The
biggest thing is not to be afraid to talk about it. It doesn’t mean
you’re a bad mother; you’ve got a chemical imbalance in your
brain. And we want to take care of you.”
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